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Avoiding Conflict with the Neighbors
We all can just get along. The key? Communication. It is often the best way to prevent and resolve conflict before it reaches the legal system. You do not have to be friends or spend time together to achieve a peaceful coexistence, but you should try to be a good neighbor and follow these tips:
Say hello. At the mailbox, while walking the dog or when you see a moving van arrive, introduce yourself. Learn your neighbors’ names and regularly offer a friendly greeting.
Provide a heads up. If you are planning a construction project, altering you are landscaping or hosting a big party, contact your neighbors beforehand.
Do unto others. Treat neighbors as you would like to be treated. Be considerate about noise from vehicles, stereos, pets, etc.
Know your differences. Make an effort to understand each other. Differences in age, ethnic background, and years in the neighborhood can lead to different expectations or misunderstandings.
Consider the view. Keep areas of your property that others can see presentable.
Appreciate them. If the neighbors do something you like, let them know. They will be pleased you noticed, and it will be easier to talk later if they do something you do not like.
Stay positive. Most people do not try to create problems. If a neighbor does something that irritates you, do not assume it was deliberate.
Talk honestly. Tolerance is important, but do not let a real irritation go because it seems unimportant or hard to discuss. Let your neighbors know if something they do annoys.
Be respectful. Talk directly to your neighbors if there is a problem. Gossiping with others can damage relationships and create trouble.
Remain calm. If a neighbor mentions a problem they have with you, thank them for the input. You do not have to agree or justify any behavior. Wait for any anger to subside before responding.
Listen carefully. When discussing a problem, try to understand your neighbor’s position and why he or she feels that way.
Take your time. Take a break to think about what you and your neighbor have discussed. Arrange to finish the conversation at another time.
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